Should I stop being friends with her?
She's my best friend for almost an year now, I love to hang with her. Though I really don't like how ungrateful she is to everything! Sometimes she act extremely selfish. To make this easier... I'm just going to make a list: 1. When I went and visited South Korea, I bought her a bunch of gifts, but all she did was "these are so cheap, that's probably the only reason you got me these!" 2. Whenever we hang out, she NEVER brings money! I have to pay for every single thing she buys! 3. When I asked if she could pay me back she told me that she's broke so I might as well just suck it up. 4. She never consider about my feelings! She think I have no emotions...! 5. She flirts with every guy. Even my boyfriend! Also she takes my credit for everything!! I really don't know if I should be friends with her any more...
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1 :
You shouldn't be friends with her! She sounds like a complete bitch, who's just using you! There could be stuff going on for her at home, but still there's no reason to act like that. Ask her is she's ok, and try and get her to crack. If she doesn't, tell her you don't want to be friends anymore or something, or just start hanging out with other people.
2 :
no, shes not a good person. i would stray away from her.
3 :
I have had a friend that was like that and she annoyed me very much because she did the sane things your best friend did and i didn't like that at all. You should stop being her friend that is what i did.
4 :
no you need to think of yourself first and what you need. she is stealing and does not respect you or your feelings so in turn she is not a good friend
5 :
Don't buy her anything anymore, not food, if she asks for the reason, ask her why she doesn't give you anything. Just leave her out if she can't afford it, and if she stays your friend for at least a month or two, go back to cashing her along, because she's loyal.
6 :
Even though you two are great friends...mooching shouldn't be a reason to hang out. She's taking advantage of you. You need to let her know that it needs to stop. She doesn't respect you. She flirts with your boyfriend, uses your money, complains because you didn't spend more money on her. Let her know how you feel. If she throws a fit then you know what to do. There's enough people in this world to find another friend. It may be time to cut the ties. I hope everything works out for you.
7 :
She is not a Friend, She is the DEVIL'S MISTRESS!!!!!!!!!!!!! Run like hell, away from her!!!!!!!!!!!!
8 :
stop being friends with her
9 :
oh hell no. re read your post and how would you answer it if it was posted by someone else? yeah. don't be friends with her anymore.
10 :
She is a user. You dont need her in your life. She does no good for you. The only reason why you are her friend is because she is fun to hang out with but if she is flirting with your boyfriend and making you pay for everything how fun can she be? Does not make much since for you to be friends with her. I say drop her and find people that are fun to hang out with and will not use you for your money and time.
11 :
I wouldn't stop being her friend completely. Just stop hanging out with her so much. It seems like all she does is bring you down...emotionally and financially. Find better friends!
12 :
Friendships work both ways, and she isn't really doing much for you. She obviously doesn't respect you to the extent that you wish she would. All I have to say is that some people are worth taking into 2011 with you, but review your pro's and con's and if pro's out weigh the con then try again but do you think she will be a good friend in the future? Think if she really cares about your best interest of funding her lifestyle.
13 :
HELL NO: 1. She flirts with ya bf. This is asking for trouble. U never know wat could happen and I hope they don't have eachothers number 4 ur sake. 2. She doesn't care about u. If she's inconsiderate of ur feelings, how is she your friend at all? 3. She's a bum if she continuously takes your money and can't even pay u back anything. 4. SHE'S WHACK
14 :
How can you be best friends with someone like that!??? Seriously! From your list it's obvious she is manipulative and ungrateful! You deserve a better "best friend" then a person who doesn't appreciate your gifts and doesn't bring money with them when going out! Flirting with your boyfriend is a massive NO NO! AND not caring about your feelings is also a massive NO NO if you ask me. You should tell her to SUCK IT UP cos you deserve better treatment from your friends! My advice lovie! Ditch the bitch ;)
15 :
wow i wouldn't even consider her a friend to begin with dump her like a bag of rocks
16 :
Sounds like the beginning of a toxic friendship, talk to her about how you feel, if she doesn't listen or justifies her behaviour and does not acknowledge that some of the things she did were wrong then ditch her, you do not need to be a the company of someone who is ungrateful and takes advantage of you
17 :
Umm...that's not a friend. She is totally using you...so, yes, don't be freinds with her anymore...she just hangs around because she receives stuff from you without having to give anything in return. What a b*tch... Or, you can still be friends...just don't pay for anything on her behalf. If she asks why, tell her to suck it up...
