Monday, July 14, 2014

How long does it take to get custody in this situation?

How long does it take to get custody in this situation?
How long does it take to get custody in this situation and what are the chances of succeeding for full custody? Here's the situation. I will be speaking in third person, tell me what you think Also, I know there will be some name calling towards me. I understand but I am working with what I have and making changes for the better. Anne and Lawrence were dating for 5 years, she was 15 he was 17 when it first started. They got married when she was 19 and he was 21 in the year of 2007. They had a baby boy named Andrew, in November 2007. There was no source for money so Lawrence joined the Army, after basic he was shipped to South Korea. Anne was not prepared to be a single mother, but had in-laws willing to help. Anne decided to cut off contact with Lawrence and become a party girl(posting pictures of her frenching her sister on FB, rapidly losing weight within a month(cocaine)). Jon did not respond to this and medicated himself by drinking. Buddies in the military contacted main Sgt in control to talk to Lawrence and discuss the penalties of the behavior. Lawrence stopped drinking but also cut off contact from home(did not bother to call son Andrew). He called Andrew on Christmas, New Year, Thanksgiving, and Andrews birthday. He did not do EVERYTHING to keep in contact often. Andrew is currently living with his maternal grandmother, Dawna who is not in good health(she had a heart attack a month ago and Anne already dropped Andrew back off to live there). Anne is living with her newest boyfriend and his parents. His mother is an alcoholic, and her boyfriend is on methamphetamine. She could live with her mother Dawna, and take care of Andrew but she chooses not too. Today, Lawrence just arrived back in the US, two states away is his military base, but he is visiting family for the weekend. Andrew lives two states away from the military base, but Lawrence would like custody. Lawrence saw his son for the first time today in a year and 3 months and realized how much he meant to him and how Andrew loves to be around him more than ANYONE that came through the house today. They have been joined at the hip since they saw each other. Lawrence has a girlfriend in Korea, she is pregnant with his child which is due in April 2011. Lawrence wants full custody of Andrew as soon as possible and to get on with providing Andrew with a normal life. Please, any suggestions? I do not know where to start. Please tell me where to start. The internet is so overloaded with information that it's hard to research anything! Any good lawyers you know of? I know I have not been a good father, and I am going to change that. I am Lawrence, the father of Andrew. I don't know what to do, please help. I am in the military until December, but I do not want to wait until then.
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If they determine the situration is dire things can move pretty quickly but otherwise it can take months



Monday, July 7, 2014

How long does it take to get custody in this situation?

How long does it take to get custody in this situation?
How long does it take to get custody in this situation and what are the chances of succeeding for full custody? Here's the situation. I will be speaking in third person, tell me what you think Also, I know there will be some name calling towards me. I understand but I am working with what I have and making changes for the better. Anne and Lawrence were dating for 5 years, she was 15 he was 17 when it first started. They got married when she was 19 and he was 21 in the year of 2007. They had a baby boy named Andrew, in November 2007. There was no source for money so Lawrence joined the Army, after basic he was shipped to South Korea. Anne was not prepared to be a single mother, but had in-laws willing to help. Anne decided to cut off contact with Lawrence and become a party girl(posting pictures of her frenching her sister on FB, rapidly losing weight within a month(cocaine)). Jon did not respond to this and medicated himself by drinking. Buddies in the military contacted main Sgt in control to talk to Lawrence and discuss the penalties of the behavior. Lawrence stopped drinking but also cut off contact from home(did not bother to call son Andrew). He called Andrew on Christmas, New Year, Thanksgiving, and Andrews birthday. He did not do EVERYTHING to keep in contact often. Andrew is currently living with his maternal grandmother, Dawna who is not in good health(she had a heart attack a month ago and Anne already dropped Andrew back off to live there). Anne is living with her newest boyfriend and his parents. His mother is an alcoholic, and her boyfriend is on methamphetamine. She could live with her mother Dawna, and take care of Andrew but she chooses not too. Today, Lawrence just arrived back in the US, two states away is his military base, but he is visiting family for the weekend. Andrew lives two states away from the military base, but Lawrence would like custody. Lawrence saw his son for the first time today in a year and 3 months and realized how much he meant to him and how Andrew loves to be around him more than ANYONE that came through the house today. They have been joined at the hip since they saw each other. Lawrence has a girlfriend in Korea, she is pregnant with his child which is due in April 2011. Lawrence wants full custody of Andrew as soon as possible and to get on with providing Andrew with a normal life. Please, any suggestions? I do not know where to start. Please tell me where to start. The internet is so overloaded with information that it's hard to research anything! Any good lawyers you know of? I know I have not been a good father, and I am going to change that. Btw I am a MALE and am on my sisters acct. I am not after child support, she would not have to pay a penny to Andrew. I am not a hero for being in the military, I could have done more to support my child(call him, send him gifts, pictures) but I did not. I have failed him up until tonight. Tonight I had my wake up call and saw how big of a loser I am. I have a second child due in April and I haven't taken care of my first? I really feel like a dirt bag. Really ashamed. I will not report any name calling. Constructive criticism. Also, Anne has a child due in March from some guy I don't even know. What if she tries to resist me taking Andrew back to my base?
Other - Pregnancy & Parenting - 1 Answers
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Since Lawrence and Anne were married when Andrew was born it's safe to assume that Lawrence is on the birth certificate right? If he is and no other custody orders are in place then he can take Andrew where ever he wants. Lawrence should document everything that's gone on while he's been in Korea including the fact that his wife effectively abandoned the child - get written statements from all parties involved, but especially from Dawna since the child was left with her so the mother could party. Lawrence should call the post where he is being stationed ASAP and see if there is childcare available at the Child Development Center on Post. If there is space available then Lawrence should take his child with him to the new post when he goes to report, as long as there are no prior court ordered custody arrangements - if there is no space then the child should be left in Dawna's care so that Lawrence will be able to report and perform his duties. If Dawna is opposed to Lawrence taking the child when he has a spot in the CDC then he should obtain a copy of the child's birth certificate and take leave to travel to Dawna's home. Once there he needs to contact the local police and ask them to assist as he needs help removing his child from a person who does not have legal custody. If for some reason there is already a custody order in place then Lawrence needs to consult the post legal office at his new post and file for custody of the child in the local area of his new post. Since Lawrence and Anne are apperantly still married I would advise Lawrence to file for divorce as soon as possible too so that he can go after Anne for child support. BTW, coming from a military member: You did what you had to do to support your child and your selfish wife is mainly to blame here. You did not contact Andrew that often, but you were also in Korea - totally helpless to change the situation that your son was in. The fact that now that you are able to you'd like to have custody of your son is huge and I wish you the best of luck. I hope that you have no opposition from the mother and her family.



Tuesday, July 1, 2014

How long does it take to get custody in this situation?

How long does it take to get custody in this situation?
How long does it take to get custody in this situation and what are the chances of succeeding for full custody? Here's the situation. I will be speaking in third person, tell me what you think Also, I know there will be some name calling towards me. I understand but I am working with what I have and making changes for the better. Anne and Lawrence were dating for 5 years, she was 15 he was 17 when it first started. They got married when she was 19 and he was 21 in the year of 2007. They had a baby boy named Andrew, in November 2007. There was no source for money so Lawrence joined the Army, after basic he was shipped to South Korea. Anne was not prepared to be a single mother, but had in-laws willing to help. Anne decided to cut off contact with Lawrence and become a party girl(posting pictures of her frenching her sister on FB, rapidly losing weight within a month(cocaine)). Jon did not respond to this and medicated himself by drinking. Buddies in the military contacted main Sgt in control to talk to Lawrence and discuss the penalties of the behavior. Lawrence stopped drinking but also cut off contact from home(did not bother to call son Andrew). He called Andrew on Christmas, New Year, Thanksgiving, and Andrews birthday. He did not do EVERYTHING to keep in contact often. Andrew is currently living with his maternal grandmother, Dawna who is not in good health(she had a heart attack a month ago and Anne already dropped Andrew back off to live there). Anne is living with her newest boyfriend and his parents. His mother is an alcoholic, and her boyfriend is on methamphetamine. She could live with her mother Dawna, and take care of Andrew but she chooses not too. Today, Lawrence just arrived back in the US, two states away is his military base, but he is visiting family for the weekend. Andrew lives two states away from the military base, but Lawrence would like custody. Lawrence saw his son for the first time today in a year and 3 months and realized how much he meant to him and how Andrew loves to be around him more than ANYONE that came through the house today. They have been joined at the hip since they saw each other. Lawrence has a girlfriend in Korea, she is pregnant with his child which is due in April 2011. Lawrence wants full custody of Andrew as soon as possible and to get on with providing Andrew with a normal life. Please, any suggestions? I do not know where to start. Please tell me where to start. The internet is so overloaded with information that it's hard to research anything! Any good lawyers you know of? I know I have not been a good father, and I am going to change that. Btw I am a MALE and am on my sisters acct.
Marriage & Divorce - 2 Answers
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mmmmm, very difficult to be decided by the third person. Let the time take its own course to clear the problem.***SWEET MILDRED IS MY LEADER..JOIN ME IN HER PLAYPEN...
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Can't figure out who you are in this situation. Assuming you're Lawrence, and you really want custody of your son, do everything in your power to obtain it, and do right by your son. If you're anyone else in the situation, please explain your involvement and exactly what advice you're looking for.



Saturday, June 28, 2014

Does anyone take dictator nations seriously?

Does anyone take dictator nations seriously?
What I mean is, you see a bunch of these poor countries around the world and hear about them in the news. Like some nations in central africa, or North Korea, or Burma, and does anyone care about them? When I see the news, I see countries in personified form. When I think of the U.S., the U.K., Japan, Germany, South Korea, Canada, China, I see mature adults who have gotten their act together and are mature. When I see countries like North Korea, Burma or some African Nations, them seem like babies. The leaders are super spoiled and always want things their way (thats why they are dictators). For example, they don't give a shit about their people besides having them for making "power". Did Burma care when the typhoon hit a few years back? Does Kim care about his people? Does he give them food, or spend the money on his mansion? Africa. Always hearing about these slush funds. I think I would feel like shit if I stole my countries money. People working hard. No investments because they are in private funds. Again, it makes them look like babies. And then they want to be taken seriously? North Korea is actually "Baby found a gun and knows where the trigger is. Uses it to get cookies". Anyways, anyone else think of this? I agree that sometimes, babies need a good smack to straighten them out.
Government - 4 Answers
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if you don't take dictator nations seriously then why did you obviously vote for bush? :D
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There are none so enslaved as those who falsely believe they are free. I certainly don't take dictators seriously.
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There's really only two reasons to take a dictatorship seriously.... 1- They have nukes 2- They have lots of oil Otherwise the US totally ignores them.
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Your rather unsensitive. And what about the people who live in the dictator nations.



Saturday, June 14, 2014

can someone pls help me to proofead this?? pls pls pls, tks?

can someone pls help me to proofead this?? pls pls pls, tks?
Ron-Lan Shen, a lady with perfect make-up, curly hair and a white outfit. She may seem like a 40 years-old woman, but she’s actually 52 now. She is what we call a typical Korean “O-Ba-Sun” (mid-aged women). In Korea, there are over 7 million females that are over 50 years-old. That is 15% of its total population. These women are the key players for economic growth behind the scene. They are firm, persistent, doughty; and most importantly, family always comes first. Ron grew up in South of Korea, got married at the early twenties and had three lovely children, a full time housewife. Her husband franchised the largest fast food chain stores in Korea. He owned two restaurants. In 2004, Ron’s husband decided to invest a golf court in Haikou, China, with everything he owned but lost all within three years. She felt ashamed because the entire family depended on this. They had to rely on their parents financially. She was forty-six. Ron said “I have to do something for the family, no matter how tough life can be. Korean women would fight till death, and do anything in their power for their family.” April 2007, Ron joined Avon doing direct selling. It was her first job. She was very excited when she got her first salary, it was NT$75,000. She felt she’d finally achieved something valuable in her life. Korean women, including her, believed ‘family always comes first.’ Women in her generation also believed being the perfect wife is a must. Even though, she’s now making more than 10 thousand NT dollars annually, she still wakes up early to make breakfast and does all the chores by herself. To these women, being a housewife is a career, a field of expertise. They are in charge of the money, kids’ education and even their kids’ marriage. In 2006, Karen Wang who is now the GM of Avon Taiwan and Korea took over Avon Korea, which was already in debts for the past decade. Karen is good at encouraging and inspiring. She successfully turned things around; the sales expanded 124% and still increasing as of last year. Karen sees a great difference between Korean and Taiwanese women, she indicated that “Korean women are very tough, when I have a meeting with them, I can feel the competitiveness at all times. They have strong characteristics. They are born to be leaders.” Karen encouraged them. She believed in them. She believed these women are born to be a "somebody.” She believed each one of them played an indispensable role. Karen observed that most Korean women wear make-up. Taiwanese women on the other hand, not all, and some only apply lipstick only. Nowadays, appearances value a lot in Korea. And to girls, the best gift from a parent is longer a motorcycle or laptop, it is a plastic surgery. The desire of “BEAUTY.” i'm trying to translate an article, it has a pic of a korean woman in white suit. "We..." refers to Taiwanese. how do i give more pts?
Languages - 1 Answers
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This is much too long for 2 points. I will help you with the first part. "Ron-Lan Shen, a lady with perfect make-up, curly hair and a white outfit. " is not a sentence. There is no verb.



Saturday, June 7, 2014

Do Chinese people view American explicit images? kind of weird question?

Do Chinese people view American explicit images? kind of weird question?
I saw this thing that had statistics on porn and it said that like in order of countries that spend money on porn.. 33% was china 20% japan and 15 south korea. But then it said that porn web pages were produced 89% in the usa and the other countries were germany and then japan was like less than 1% So.. are people from like asian countries viewing american porn? Or do they pay money for like prostitues or something? Like.. how come thsoe countries spend that much, when america makes almost all of it?
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If I'm not mistaken, it has something to do with censorship? Like in China I guess they're not allowed to show actual penetration (or even cartoon images of it) without it being blurred or having the black box over it. So it makes sense that they would be looking at American porn, where pretty much anything goes, and they do a lot of Asian themed stuff anyway lol. Not sure if that's true or not, though. Just what I've heard



Sunday, June 1, 2014

Don't you think that if KimJongIl psychopath wants food so bad he should let his people grow it?

Don't you think that if KimJongIl psychopath wants food so bad he should let his people grow it?
Instead of growing opium for pocket money to expand his military? Because that's what he's doing you know. He is systematically already starving his people. He grows what makes him enough cash to grow his army. All the relief food is used to feed the military and their families and all the innocents starve to death. Does this sound like the kind of tyrant dictator you negotiate with? Sanctions will only work if China agrees to stop funding the neighbor they allowed to go nuclear. And China doesn't sound like they want to do squat about it. If North Korea wants to declare war on the US because we are imposing sanctions on him, that's a good thing. China will have to be involved, let them take care of the problem that they have only been contributing to for decades. South Korea is going crazy, many people have family who have been tortured, and starved to death and who are still trapped in the NOrth. Everyone wants to get rid of KimJong. What do you think Bush should do?
Politics - 2 Answers
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You've definitely done your homework there girl...........right on! No, nobody will do anything until N. Korea starts a war, then we will be forced to respond. Until then, all your gonna see is talk and more talk.
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Well I think you answered your own question. As a true sociopath, all he thinks about is furthering his own agenda. As long as he has enough resources to sustain his regime and meet that end, he will continue to do so. From what I understand, he proclaims himself as a demi-god to his people, of whom for some reason-most likely fear- eat up every word he gives them. It is a true "big brother" society, where you must constantly tip-toe, for fear that you might do the wrong thing. If the U.S. invaded Iraq for the ultimate reason of Saddaam being a monster toward his own people, then what is our excuse for not going to N.Korea for the same reason times twenty? China unfortunately will not get involved unless they are threatened first-hand by N. Korea. They do not have allies, they have interests..they are a true isolationist society (in every sense that is possible in our global economy) But, in the end the threat from North Korea is empty...I believe they just want more money...one of the resolution solutions we have tried before. Not that you can't be too careful...but they have ..what ..a handful of nukes tops?! I think we have in the neighborhood of 2500, so they are a little outnumbered. In the end, after the Iraq fiasco, Bush will do nothing but sanction...His resources are depleted, and his party's popularity is at an all time low...In my opinion..NK should have been a higher priority, from the beginning, over Iraq