Dating someone from a different country?
i started dating this guy in high school. he's my best friend and we've done everything together for the last three years. i don't know what i'm going to do without him. he just left today so all i'm doing right now is crying. he's going back home (to south korea) this summer. any tips on how to survive an international relationship? it's different than just a long distance relationship. we can't text or call much at all because it's so expensive and we don't have much money. and the timing is 14 hours off... so when i'm awake, he's sleeping. and when i'm sleeping, he's awake. any tips of advice on how to make this work? please help...
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It won't work. You can be friends and keep in contact but nothing more as you will grow apart and find other people. If your ment to be something will happen in the furture to help. Stay strong and stay positive
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If you love him that much why can`t you go with him, and if he really love you why can`t he sty here with you and marry you? That`s what i did with my wife. and we ve been married for 12 years now. Good Luck
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You are too young to get yourself in a long distance relationship, just forget about him and move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
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It won't work i'm sorry. answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aq_ROvAMbK6q7zhHkH_oQl_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100610203512AACaoj3
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You have not told me how old you are which makes the situation quite different because then you could probably take a holiday to South Korea and see him at least once and you have also only told me me that he has gone back for the summer so that it could indicate that he comes back once the summer is finished.. I do condole with you.. Other than writing to him a letter every day and talking to him on skype, it does not cost anything to download skype and get chatting him to him as if he was next door, you may just have to bear the absence of his physical presence until he is old enough to either marry you if he is that way inclined. He would certainly oblige if you send him a letter giving him your skpe address as soon as it is installed. In the meantime, please make sure that you continue to maintain the way you look so that he does not find a haggard girlfriend when he does talk to you:). Also find yourself a part time job so that you can find the finance for that visit to South Korea. You must become more sensible and work towards your goals, i.e. meeting him agian. Good luck:).
